The definition of lifetime support

©T. Savannahs
(Originally posted on AllEarz Savannahs)

As a breeder, when I say I want to be there for you for the lifetime of the animal—I don’t mean just in the kitten stages where everything is fresh and new. I don’t mean just when they are full grown and adorable in the sunlight and you just need to snap that picture and email it to me right now. I don’t mean just when everything is easy and amazing—when every moment seems like it should be captured on film.

I mean—in the hard times, when you think something might be wrong, but you just aren’t sure.
I mean—when the vet offers up a terminal diagnosis and you can’t choose between trusting them or looking for a second opinion.

I mean—in the middle of the night when something has gone awry and you find yourself crying in an exam room because they simply cannot fix your baby.

I mean—in twenty years when he’s breathed his last breath and you hold him in your arms for one last time.

Of course, yes, I want to be there for my kittens throughout the cute stages, the fun stages, the trouble stages. But my vow to him—which then transfers onto you and I must trust you to keep it—is that I will be there for all of the stages of his life.

I am not obligated—I am honored.

So when I tell you I will be there for you and this kitten for his lifetime—please respect me and my wishes. Let me know how my kitten is doing. Let me know what type of cat he has become. And when the day comes when your veterinarian believes he is so ill that you must do that unthinkable task—think of me as well and let me know. I will be there to hold your hand in spirit as much as I’d willingly be in that room with you in person.

Breeding is a lifetime commitment. His lifetime—my lifetime. Help me honor that commitment as his breeder just as you honor your commitment as his owner.

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